Our Story

"I hope thatyouare well."


Someone said it once, and it stayed, like a reminder tucked inside something ordinary. That's where this started.

That You Are — Thaddeus

That You Are is a menswear label based in Singapore, built on words that stay with you.

"Hello Thaddeus, I hope that you are well."

It started at work. I was exhausted — not from any one thing, but from everything at once. The kind of tired that lives in your head, where you're constantly moving but never quite arriving. One day, in the middle of it all, an email came in. It wasn't urgent. It didn't cut straight to business. It started with that line. It was probably a template. But in that moment, it stopped me. Not because it said anything extraordinary, but because someone, even a stranger, had paused long enough to ask. And I realised I hadn't done that for myself in a long time.

That's what That You Are is. A stranger's message arriving at the right moment. A reminder that you deserve to pause, to be checked in on, to feel like someone out there is rooting for you — even if they don't know your name.

We make clothes for men who believe in showing up when it matters. For lovers who give gifts with intention. For anyone who trusts that what you wear can carry something meaningful, a feeling, a reminder, a connection for whoever needs it.

Our hope is that you find sentiment in every piece. A gentle reminder to feel loved, and to show up, wherever, whenever. Drop us a message, we'd love to hear from you!

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FAQs

Size Guide

Our pieces are designed with a relaxed, Japanese-inspired fit, which means they tend to run larger than standard sizing. This is intentional. We love the oversized, effortless silhouette and we think you will too.

Each product page includes a detailed size chart and a height-and-weight guide to help you find your best fit before you order. We'd recommend checking these before purchasing, especially if you're between sizes.

If you're still unsure, drop us a message at customercare@thatyouare.co. We're happy to help you find the right fit.

Shipping & Delivery

Local Delivery (Singapore)

We deliver island-wide via NinjaVan at a flat rate of SGD $4.50, with an estimated 1–3 business days for your order to arrive. Please note that delivery timeframes exclude our order processing time of 1–2 working days upon payment confirmation.

International Shipping

We currently ship to Malaysia, Indonesia, Thailand, Philippines, and Australia.

For Malaysia, Indonesia, Thailand, and Philippines — we ship via NinjaVan, with estimated delivery of 5–14 business days depending on your location. Shipping rates and any applicable free shipping thresholds are reflected at checkout.

For Australia — we ship via JustShip, with estimated delivery of 5–8 business days.

Customs duties and import taxes may apply upon arrival and are the responsibility of the recipient.

If you're outside our current shipping regions and would still like to place an order, reach out to us at customercare@thatyouare.co — we'll do our best to make it work.

Do you accept refunds/returns?

You can click here for more information on our refund and return policies

Can I cancel my order after I have checkout?

Once an order has been checked out, cancellations are not allowed.

How long is my Store Credit valid?

Store credits are valid for 12 months from the date of issue and can be used on any item available online.

Once an order is placed using store credit, the item cannot be refunded for additional store credit.